Self-Pressure as a Multi-Talent

We can put great pressures on ourselves by expecting perfection.  When we accept others expectations of us without questioning we can add pressure.  We add pressures when we experience being ignored, rejected, or not included, not fitting in, not being understood or not connecting.  We have a choice on our response to our self-talk, what […]

Self-Talk in the Mind of a Multi-Talent

Multi-talents racing minds allow for many, many thoughts and ideas.  A multitude of those thoughts are creative eggs waiting to be incubated and hatched – developed and expressed.  Many others will get in our way by sabotaging our self-concept, our self-esteem, our feelings, our actions and our relationships.  They are our thoughts that criticize and […]

Overwhelmed as a Multi-Talent

That oh so too frequent experience of feeling overwhelmed day in and day out.  We have so many things going on in our head, our sensations, our daily activities that we can get lost in the shuffle.  We need to find our center so that we can return their often and on the spur of […]

Love as Multi-Talent 02/12/15

Oh how I love and how I want to be loved.  The intensity of the joy of love and the devastation and pain of love lost.  Sounds like over the top romantic gobbledygook.  However, as a multi-talent with intense emotions and extreme sensitivities the pendulum does swing that high or low.  On the other hand, […]

Giving and Receiving Compliments as a Multi-Talent

Authenticity comes very much into play with giving and receiving of compliments.  We have very fine filters to detect and screen out the sarcasm.  We have received many mixed messages.  Then we have expectations (ours and others) of perfectionism.  However, the dilemma appears with a focus on the end product.  Complementing the process and the […]

You’re Great! Can’t be Talking about ME.

As multi-talented women many times we are amazed by the outstanding contribution, performance, presentation… expression by other multi-talented females.  We ooohhhh and aaahhh over what they have done.  We respond with accolades of their magnificence.  We shower them with praise and recognition.  We greet them with enthusiasm and are so happy for their “success”. However, […]